Goodbye, Arpad Miklos

Arpad Miklos, we will miss you.

It was very sad to read today, over the Internet, that Arpad Miklos took his life at the age of 45. I was always very fond of this Eastern European gentleman and thought he was one of the sexiest of the male-adult-film superstars. In fact, it was almost exactly a year ago that I labeled him one of my Top Five Most Fabulous Men.
http://djbuddybeaverhausen.blogspot.com/2012/02/my-top-five-most-fabulous-men.html

Arpad's real name was Peter Kozma. (That's also a good name for a gay porn star; sounds like "Cosmo"!)  He was a chemist from Hungary (emphasis on "Hung") who, once he was recruited as an international porn star, moved to New York City where he ended up admired in a career through films, videos, magazines, live performances and as an escort.

He appeared in a music video I enjoyed, as well, by Perfume Genius. http://djbuddybeaverhausen.blogspot.com/2012/01/arpad-miklos-hot-in-hood-by-perfume.html

"It is with great sadness I report that Arpad Miklos, my co-star in my very first movie, passed away yesterday. He was, for a time, an incredibly close friend and confidant. A beautiful, smart, loving and complicated man, may he truly rest in peace...," singer Frederick Ford said today on Facebook. 

According to Joe.My.God., "[I]n New York City [Arpad] contributed to several LGBT charities and worked on an American Apparel fundraiser for the Ali Forney Center."

R.I.P., Arpad/Peter. So young, so tragic. You will be missed by many. God bless!

My Top Five Most Fabulous Men

I want to discuss my fantasies. Not about being able to fly; having a Rolls-Royce with a chauffeur; or hanging out at a bar, over drinks, with my new best bud, Lady Gaga; not those kind of fantasies. The other kind. The kind that get me... err... a little bewitched, bothered and bewildered. Yes, fantasies about Men, damn it!

It occurred to me to come up with a list about the guys with whom I'd like to get under the covers (at least in my dreams), so here's my top five (for starters), admittedly eclectic, list, in absolutely no particular order. (Of course, all the men listed are famous because, frankly, even though I have very lively fantasies of men on the street or on the subway, I have no names, no bios and no pics for those guys.) Here goes:

Eric McCormack. Yes, I know the gay-for-pay tv star of Will & Grace is straight, but I can dream, can't I, imagining he could be had? I first took note of Eric on an Outer Limits episode, and was thrilled when this hunk ended up assaying the Will Truman role on tv. A recipient of the GLAAD Award and the gayest straight man on Earth, I will be seeing him soon on Broadway in Gore Vidal's The Best Man (and loving it).

Neil Tennant of The Pet Shop Boys, age appropriate, proper sexy British accent, intelligent, sensitive, rich and tall. Just what I'm shopping for! Hello, Neil, dahling!

Porn stars are definitely a part of my fantasies. I love the more mature bears, like Colton Ford (who quit the porn scene after much success for obvious reasons). I know he is very happily involved in a relationship, but I'd have no trouble breaking up somebody's home, so, obviously, that's not a problem.

Then there's Czech hunk, Arpad Miklos. He's a Manhattan escort, so there's always a chance with him, though I'd want him, ultimately, to escort me into bed. I have a feeling that money is a big factor with Arpie, so I'd really have to put in more dj hours. But my big goal would be to make him love me so he'd just forget about that silly money stuff!

Finally, I've long been a fan of this big daddy. The sheer size, those massive shoulders, he's into Zen! I know that Phil Jackson's a married man, but this is my fantasy, after all. I'd be happy with any amazing, colossal man who just resembles him (with a similar bank account, please).

Well, there you have it, the secret Men fantasy file of the mind. Let me know what you think. But, I believe these are, indeed, my Top Five Most Wanted. Of course, I could go on if I were provoked, to do a Top Ten.

Arpad Miklos, Hot in the "Hood" by Perfume Genius

There's a whole new trend of male porn stars doing music videos. Some do their own singing. Some, like Colton Ford (who began as a singer) do well. Some, like Zeb Atlas, should stick to s&m (that's standing & modeling, children)! Now, there are some men who bring a natural class to gay porn and know when not to try singing. And Arpad Miklos is one of them.

With a sexy gentleman's air, the hung Hungarian lives in New York and works as an escort. (In case anyone wants to know what to buy me for my upcoming birthday, this dude could escort me anywhere!)

I actually got a kiss (on the lips!) from this handsome, hairy, Eastern-European beast one night, not too long ago, when he was dancing on a bar in his jock strap. Of course, I'd put a $5 bill in it. But I distinctly remember having pleasant dreams that night!

Well, now, Arpad is co-starring in a video for the song, "Hood," by Perfume Genius. That's the stage name for solo artist Mike Hadrea from Seattle. "Hood"'s melody is decidedly retro-girl group but sung by a gay man; kind of sensitive; kind of '60s-Carole King-ish. I like it. And the sweetly minimalist, Felliniesque video is a beauty.

Arpad could do my hair and make-up anytime!